A Year for Healing

With the coming of the new year and the cleansing snows and rains that come, I am hoping that this is the year I become healthy again. The last year has been a year I will never forget, it was the year my body lived in the continual state of sickness, with hospitalizations, months missing work, many days spent in bed because the exertion to move literally took my breath away and the last two months was dedicated to battling breast cancer by taking radiation treatments. I am determined to heal this year. I am down but I am not out of the picture yet.

There is a reason this has all happened and it will be made clear one day as to why. I believe I am going through these sicknesses to give me a better understanding and empathy for the many ill people I have meet, I plan on meeting in the future and those around me now.

Miss Health and Wellness Classes

Hi Everyone, we are now 4 weeks into the new term and it is going but not very well. I have two too many classes ending in "ology" (lol). This term I have Histology and Embryology for one class and the other class is Cell and Molecular Biology. Part of me understands why we need these classes but there is a part of me that thinks what am I going to do with this information when I am helping a client. My understanding of their diagnosis is imperative to making sure that the consultation is correct, however I wll have a hard time explaining all of the medical terms. There is very little discussions in the seminars as there is so much information to go over, I really miss the discussions in seminar and sharing the lives of all of my classmates. Just know ladies that I miss you all. I hope this finds everyone doing well in their classes, doing well in their life and doing well in their hearts.

Melody

Reflection

After going back to working midnight shift, I find that as with most anything there is a positive and negative side. The positive side is I now have an hour at lunch to myself, I can enjoy the solace of the summer evening and meditate or spend the time in reflection or study since a new term has started. I find more often than not just enjoying the early morning quiet and breathing. Being thankful for all the blessings that are in my life.
The negative side is that my eating habits are haywire and my sleep patterns are completely out of wack. This leading back to causing my IBS to flare up. But this is ok as I know that with time this will straighten out.

There has been a falling out with my cousin over her care. I have found out that she doesn't want anyone to get too close or know what the doctors are saying. I believe this is so she can tell us (parents and myself and others) anything and we have no way to prove that she isn't as sick as she is letting on. I accidentally found this out. She had been saying for months that she has Lupus and after a few days in the hospital and speaking to the doctors I found out she doesn't have Lupus and this upset her. After finding this out she became very defensive and told me that she did not want to discuss her issues with me. I told her to take me off of her emergency contact list or as her support if I was not going to have the medical information I needed if something happened to her. I believe in my heart she needs help, but you can't help someone who doesn't want to help themself or get better. I hope the best for her and do not want to see her get hurt, but I know I can't do anything except pray.

I have been reflecting on whether not being able to help her is a sign that I am in the wrong profession. I would really love to help people who are on the road to healing and believe that I have the knowledge to do this yet does having the knowledge make me competent enough?

Now, the Ending and the Beginning

With the ending of this term with Kaplan signifies to me the ending of ceaseless thoughts and worries, it is now the beginning of something new. I am now aware of how to take the negative and turn it into a positive, I now know that I can accept myself, the events of my life and the people in it with loving-kindness. Once again I am reminded that the events of life are placed in your life for a reason. I have also came to realize that these events can and do make a person stronger. Over the last two weeks this has hit home more so than ever.

Trying to help someone and being turned against has made me realize that you can't help everyone, some people do not want to be helped. My heart is sad but I know the only thing that I can do is send out prayers and loving kindeness toward this person and hope that one day they will see that even if there isn't a cure for mental illness they can live a better life. At this point I would say that I have slide back a little in spirituality to a 6 due to the sadness in my heart.

Psychologically, I am still at an 8. I realize that because I could not help this one person that it does not mean that I won't be able to help someone else. I still feel in my heart and soul that as long as I can help one person than all of the hours spent losing sleep due to studying, and trying to juggle life will have been worth it, for me the reward is seeing someone's life changing from darkness into a world filled with color.

As of today mentally I am also at an 8, I do not doubt what I am learning or the reason for my learning about health and wellness. The only reason I give myself an 8 is due to realizing that I have so much more to learn that will increase my mental strength and soul.

My goals for each aspect of mental, psychological and spirituality will always be a work in progress. I will always continue to seek knowledge of not only myself but for the benefit of others as well. Exercising needs to be worked on as now I am still trying to adjust to a new work schedule, thankfully I still have my dogs that have to be walked several times a day. Prayer comes everyday even if it is just to look up at the heavens and say "thank you for this life". Mentally, I will and do try to keep my mind sharp not only calm to where I can focus but active as well through my studies and through games that enhance the memory and concentration.

This class has empowered me with a sense of self and reaffirmed that to take care of yourself and love yourself is just as vital for life as taking care of others. To help with others and see their changes to the end one must start at the beginning, within yourself.

Unit 10

Your final blog entry is to summarize your experiences in this course and discuss how it has assisted your well-being and your ability to assist others.

The best way that I can describe my experiences in this class is to send loving-kindness out to all of my classmates and Professor. Learning new exeperiences is what I enjoy about school. This class showed me and taught me how to meditate in order to stop the flood of thoughts I have, which allows me to prioritize and see the events of my life in a different light. These techniques help to stop the sense of being overwhelmed and allows me to focus. I now know that by using the techniques everyday I can and will face any adversity that may come my way and also allow me to enjoy the beauty that is in my life and surrounds me everyday.

I am so thankful that I was able to take this class as it has come in very handy everyday dealing with the illnesses of my mom and my cousin. Using the deep breathing techniques has helped my mom through her anxiety attacks and the subtle mind has helped my cousin with her claustraphobia. These two practices will be very beneficial to my clients and seem to be the easiest two to use no matter where they may be.

Unit 9 Project

Unit 9 Project Personal Application of the Psychological and Spiritual Aspects of Healing
Melody Carroll
HW420-03AU
Introduction to Creating Wellness:
Psychological & Spiritual Aspects of Healing
Kaplan University
August 10, 2009




Introduction
Through life’s journey I was made aware that there comes a time when being psychologically, spiritually and physically sound plays an integral part in a person’s quality of life. I found this to be even truer when I chose to follow on a path to becoming a health and wellness professional. I have come to realize that having a sound foundation in each of these aspects will only lend to the care that I will be able to give my future patients. By developing psychologically, spiritually and physically I will be able to open my heart, mind and spirit to those I will be helping. If as a professional I am not able or willing to open myself up to the client and listen to them with an open heart, mind or spirit I will not truly understand what may be creating an illness or causing them stress or be able to guide them on a path to healing.

By a professional developing spiritually, psychologically and physically allows them to keep from becoming stagnant in their thought processes, feelings and in body. As Elliot Dacher said “If one’s beliefs are so fixed that they are not open to alternative views, then one is similarly not ready to evolve to a higher level of knowledge or capacity”, (Dacher, 2006), in essence we as professionals become stagnant. For me, seeking knowledge through continuing my education, practicing different techniques for enlightenment and relieving stress , eating correctly and exercising regularly, will help keep me from becoming stagnant in my spirit, mind and in body. We, as professionals should strive to continually seek to increase our knowledge and understanding not only of the body’s health but also how the environment, our beliefs and our clients’ beliefs have a direct impact on integral health.

Assessment
Before beginning my journey in health and wellness I believed that health was only related to feeling well in my body and free of any suffering only in my body. I never really thought about the health or wellness of my mind or spirit. Now I have learned and come to realize that health encompasses all of these areas, the spirit, mind, and body. When one area is under continual stress than each area can and will be affected.

I have always had a strong spiritual faith in a higher power watching over me and knew that I cannot control everything or that life did not always go the way I wanted. I learned to accept early on that many things happen for a reason. I know that people are brought into your life for a reason also and that they can teach something that can be both positive and negative. I have come to realize that even the most difficult situation can be turned into a positive thought if the time is taken to really review the events. Right now in my life I am at an 8 on a scale of 1 to 10 in seeking a higher spiritual plain. I know that I have many years left to live and a higher spiritual plain is waiting. There will be many people come into my life who will have a lot to teach.

I view my mind as a sponge continually soaking up my environment and on a constant search for knowledge, learning always how to deal with daily life and the events that make up living. On a scale from 1 low to 10 high my mind is an 8. I know that there are times that I am overwhelmed and want to run and hide. At these times my mind does not process well and I know that I need to stop doing things or thinking and give my mind a rest. Just as the body needs to sleep so does my mind.

Having several health issues, on a scale of 1 low to 10 high, my body is at a 6. Over the last several months I have gone from being hospitalized with breathing problems and gastric problems to walking two hours a day with an increase in my lung capacity and success in finding foods that I can eat without becoming sick. I know that I will have to be on a constant vigilance on eating healthier and staying active especially in the years ahead as I am getting older. Also keeping my physical body in good shape will help in my endeavors of starting my own health and wellness consulting firm.

Goal Development
With the choice of starting my own business in health and wellness it is extremely important that I continually develop my mind, spirit and body in order to not only take care of myself but to be able to attend to my future clients as well. I seek to learn new techniques like Tai Chi or other meditative practices in order to help keep my mind focused and free of turmoil. Spiritually, I need to continue to pray and seek guidance on enlightenment and wisdom. Physically, I walk but I also know that I need to add strength training as well as flexibility exercises to my daily routine. For these will help me as I get older and battle the many different health issues related to growing older.

Personal Health Practices
To meet my goals and grow older with a good quality of life I will have to continue on my path of enlightenment by continually developing myself spiritually, physically, and psychologically. Spiritually, I like to commune with nature. The feel of the wind blowing across the body and through the hair allows one to feel that there is a sweet breath blowing away the days stresses. Feeling the warmth of the sun on my skin allows my aches to be eased and my body to become warm. By sitting outside I can close my eyes and use mental imagery to take myself to another place and time. When I am outside in the wind and sun my spirit can soar. I can feel a higher power at work cleansing me and opening my inner senses to the world around me. Some clients are afraid to go outside due to all of the negativity of getting skin diseases and possibly an interaction with the medications they are on. Helping to alleviate some of these fears by using the right skin products and taking the necessary precautions for outdoors an individual
can enjoy the wind blowing and the warmth of the sun. By using mental imagery in my profession can help teach my clients that they can travel anywhere in their mind that they would like to go. That mental imagery can also be used to improve their health when focusing on themselves and picturing a path to healing.

Being physically sound will be imperative to maintain as I get older to help with balance and being able to perform my daily chores dealing with home and work. Two ways to do this is eating healthier and incorporating different physical activities, like cardiovascular and strength training. By eating the right foods I will be providing my body with the right nutrients and vitamins it needs to function and help build my immune system. Adding physical activities will help strengthen my muscles and bones which in turn will help my maintain balance and help keep from losing anymore bone density. I can incorporate each of these into my consulting practice by working with my clients on eating healthier, showing them that they have choices in the foods that they eat and purchase can be healthier while still living on a budget. I can also show them that there are low impact exercises that can be performed and practices such as, Tai Chi, which can be used to strengthen their muscles and bones.

The last strategy that I can implement is psychological. By striving to increase my knowledge through education and meditation practices I will be able to help educate my clients and help them to focus their energies on healing. By learning the subtle mind and breathing techniques will help not only myself but my clients as well deal with life’s daily stressors. Teaching them how to stop the flow of random thoughts and stresses that usually fly through someone’s mind will allow for a time of peace and enable the ability focus on the aspects of most importance in theirs and my life.


Commitment
With life having a way of interfering with the processes that we want to do to better ourselves and our life we have to make a personal commitment to ourselves and to our clients to continue developing our spiritual selves, our psychological aspects and our physical being. To do this spiritually I can keep communing with nature, listen and learn about the many different cultures so I can communicate with my clients that may be of many cultures, I can also join a church and become one of many that seek knowledge of life. Psychologically I will have to continue learning and practicing the different meditation techniques that I have learned and continually look for ways to alleviate the stress that I go through each day. I will be able to measure this in the form of the different illnesses that I have that are aggravated by too much stress. Physically I can measure my progress through maintaining a healthy weight, through keeping a journal and by the way I feel. I know when I feel overweight and am physically run down; this is part of the motivation to keep me active.

Conclusion
As a health and wellness professional the continual growth in spirituality, psychology and physical aspects will only help me to interact with my clients on a more personal level and help them. Elliot Dacher points out in is book, Integral Health: The Path to Human Flourishing that the Eastern philosophy believes that the healer has one thousand hands which “signifies the need for every integral healer to have many different ways in which to reach out to meet the unique needs of an individual” (Dacher, 2006). If as a healer I close off my heart, mind and body to all of the ways to heal than I will close myself off to helping others.


References
Dacher, E.S. (2006) Integral Health: The Path to Human Flourishing, Basic Health Publications, Inc., Laguana Beach, CA

Two Exercises

The two exercises that I found to be most beneficial are the subtle mind practice and the breathing exercises. Both of these practices have helped me to remain calm when I was having to be at the hospital with my cousin last weekend and while I was at work dealing with angry customers. Both of these can be practiced anytime and anywhere. They both help to focus on stopping the continual flow of thoughts and shallow breathing that comes from an agitated state. I know when I use these two techniques I can feel the anger or agitation slipping away and my body seems to return to being in balance. When I complete the exercise I am able to return to work or handle a situation with better clarity.